Another great point. I’m writing a piece now on emotional availability that reveals just how insecure I’ve been in the past with my dating life. I was so insecure, that I sought out men (and women, I’m bisexual) who made me feel more insecure. As a result, I would constantly chase and become infatuated by people who were unavailable. I loved the ‘thrill of the chase’ and never cared about people who showed genuine interest. Genuine interest from a man was too real and scary to process.

This statement described me perfectly two years ago, and I’m so thankful I’m becoming aware of it. I think this is a key concept that every women should read and take to heart.