No problem! Everyone you know (including yourself) is a defender of ghosting, that's interesting. I'm aware that it's a widely accepted millennial trend. I use it as a last resort because I had multiple ex partners who ghosted/were silent towards me because they didn't want to deal with my feelings. They chose to run away because they didn't have enough emotional maturity to communicate, and I think that damages both parties. From those experiences, I know how much ghosting hurts and won't ever do it to anyone else. (unless there's a good reason, abuse, etc).

Basically, I believe ghosting is an early 20s trend that young folks use to avoid developing good communication skills. Once you're older, you got no excuse :) tell me your thoughts if you have more!



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