This really hit home for me. In the past, I’ve waited around for emotionally unavailable men or waited for something to change in a relationship if I was unhappy. Every time I got out of a relationship that I felt could’ve been better, I viewed that as “wasted time.” Taking responsibility for my decision to date someone was difficult! I’m learning now that blaming an ex for wasting my time comes from a place of low confidence and insecurity. I need to own that decision, and move on in a positive way. Thank you!

Software Engineer | Musician | Dog Rescue Work | Bisexual poet and creative dark romanticist who writes about mental health, sexuality, & love.

Software Engineer | Musician | Dog Rescue Work | Bisexual poet and creative dark romanticist who writes about mental health, sexuality, & love.